calcatesFeb 24 minFixedI opened the New York Times app this morning to see, As Kids, They Thought They Were Trans. They No Longer Do. Cue complicated somatic...
calcatesJul 12, 20236 minMotels, T-shirts and EvilThe odometer blinks 1221 miles as I turn off the engine. Four a.m. in Fort Collins is far behind us and Arlington is a long way away. We...
calcatesDec 5, 20223 minIndoctrinationAs the attack on transgender rights and gender-affirming healthcare grows in our country, I am feeling a particular sense of huntedness....
calcatesSep 27, 20223 minAn Open Invitation to Every Human..who thinks "there is a time and a place to talk about social justice and inequality" It’s interesting how here and now is never that...
calcatesApr 23, 20224 minWhy I Get UpI like to ask real questions. When I meet a person and they say, “My husband this...” or “My wife that…” I regularly ask, “Do you like...
calcatesOct 15, 20213 minWhat We Say When We (Struggle to) Say TheyThe thing about “they” as a pronoun is that it is far from neutral, particularly when heard and used, or -- not heard or used -- by...