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Indoctrination
As the attack on transgender rights and gender-affirming healthcare grows in our country, I am feeling a particular sense of huntedness....
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- Oct 15, 2021
- 3 min
What We Say When We (Struggle to) Say They
The thing about “they” as a pronoun is that it is far from neutral, particularly when heard and used, or -- not heard or used -- by...
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- Aug 7, 2021
- 3 min
The Thin Pink Line
I think a lot about what it means to a woman. Female is easy to tag. It’s biology. It’s anatomy. With some notable and important...
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- Dec 15, 2020
- 7 min
When the Boob is on the Other Foot
On Monday morning, I went to a consult with a surgeon to see about having what is often called in the trans community "top surgery." For...
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