calcatesDec 5, 20223 minIndoctrinationAs the attack on transgender rights and gender-affirming healthcare grows in our country, I am feeling a particular sense of huntedness....
calcatesApr 23, 20224 minWhy I Get UpI like to ask real questions. When I meet a person and they say, “My husband this...” or “My wife that…” I regularly ask, “Do you like...
calcatesOct 15, 20213 minWhat We Say When We (Struggle to) Say TheyThe thing about “they” as a pronoun is that it is far from neutral, particularly when heard and used, or -- not heard or used -- by...
calcatesAug 31, 20213 minGender CrazySince spreading the word about my top surgery in January of this year, I have heard from friends both close and distant asking if I would...