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calcatesAug 31, 20213 minGender CrazySince spreading the word about my top surgery in January of this year, I have heard from friends both close and distant asking if I would...
calcatesAug 7, 20213 minThe Thin Pink LineI think a lot about what it means to a woman. Female is easy to tag. It’s biology. It’s anatomy. With some notable and important...